Did you ever say to yourself, why did I say that? or Why did I write that? Well it happens to everyone. You don’t mean it but it seems to come out at times, by accident. Sometimes I wish I could pre-think about it, then realize what I could say. That is just plain wish-ful thinking, But I can say one thing about it all, if I am feeling guilt over what I said then that means I have remorse. That is a good sign since I believe that’s partof my Christian growth.
So the moral is: try to be understanding of the listener before you say something out of line/